Learning to tie shoelaces is one of those childhood milestones that feels small—but is actually a big deal. It’s not just about keeping shoes on feet; it’s about independence, fine motor skills, and that little burst of pride kids feel when they say, “I can do it myself!”
At Awesome Shoes, we know that parents often wonder: When will my child be ready to tie their shoes? How do I actually teach them? And what shoes make it easier?
This guide will walk you through the when, the how, and the top tips for making shoelace-tying a success story—without the morning meltdowns.
When Do Kids Learn to Tie Their Shoes?
Most children develop the hand-eye coordination, dexterity, and bilateral hand skills (using both hands together for different tasks) needed to tie shoes between the ages of 5 and 7.
That said, every child is different. Some master it early, others take a little longer—and that’s perfectly normal. What’s important is introducing the skill before they absolutely need it for school shoes or sports trainers. That way, there’s time to practise without rushing.
How to Teach Kids to Tie Their Shoes – Step by Step
There’s no single “best” shoelace-tying method for kids. Some children click with the classic “bunny ears” approach, others prefer the “loop and swoop”, and some love a modern twist like the “new method”.
Here’s a tried-and-tested strategy inspired by NHS occupational therapy advice:
1. Choose the Right Laces
- Go for flat laces—they grip better than round ones and are less likely to loosen.
- Try two-tone laces or add coloured tape to each end to make it easier to tell them apart.
2. Practise Away from Shoes
- Use dressing gown cords or jogger waistbands to practise making knots.
- Keep sessions short—just a few minutes a day works better than one long, stressful session.
3. Start with Untying
It’s easier to learn how shoelaces come apart before learning to put them together.
4. Use Backward Chaining
Break the process into small steps, teaching the last step first so your child experiences quick wins. Then work backwards until they can do the whole process independently.
5. Pick a Method
Here are three popular methods you can try:
a) One Loop Method (Loop, Swoop, and Pull)
- Cross the laces into an “X” and pull tight.
- Make one loop and hold it with your thumb and finger.
- Wrap the other lace around the loop.
- Push it through the hole to form a second loop.
- Pull both loops outwards to tighten.
b) Bunny Ears Method
- Cross the laces into an “X” and pull tight.
- Make a loop with each lace (two “bunny ears”).
- Cross the loops over each other to form an “X”.
- Tuck one loop under the other and pull both loops tight.
c) New Method (Double Loop Start)
- Make a regular knot, then a second loose knot on top.
- Push each lace down through the small gap, forming two loops.
- Pull both loops tight.
💡 Extra Tip: Whichever method you choose, you can add a quick double knot at the end to stop laces from untying during play.
7 Top Tips for Stress-Free Shoelace Learning
- Pick the right moment – avoid rushed mornings; try evenings or weekends.
- Sit down – your child can practise with the shoe on their knee or on a table before trying on foot.
- Show, tell, and guide – some kids learn best by watching, others by listening, others by hands-on help.
- Be patient – resist the urge to take over.
- Let mistakes happen – encourage problem-solving instead of correcting straight away.
- Use videos or photo guides – pausing between steps helps kids keep pace.
- Celebrate every success – even tying one loop without help is progress.
What If They’re Not Ready Yet?
Not every child is ready to tie their own shoes by age 5 or even 7—and that’s okay. There are plenty of great alternatives, including:
- Velcro-fastening shoes (great for school and sports)
- Slip-on trainers
- Elastic or curly no-tie laces
- Magnetic lace closures
At Awesome Shoes, we stock a wide range of school shoes and trainers that suit every stage—whether your child is still in Velcro or ready to proudly tie their first bow.
Final Thoughts
Learning to tie shoelaces is more than a practical skill—it’s a confidence booster. By starting early, breaking it down into simple steps, and keeping it fun, you’ll help your child master the art of the perfect bow.
And when that day comes, you might just feel as proud as they do.
Shop our collection of kids’ shoes – from first trainers to smart school shoes – and find the perfect pair for your little lace-tying champion.
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